When kids are little, the whole meal thing can be…well, a challenge. No kid is the same, and there are always things they don’t like to eat. To make matters worse, if you were raised in my generation, you were always told that you needed to clean up your plate, because there were children starving in Africa. It occurred to us that our not cleaning our plate was not going to help them anyway, but that was still the thing we were told. Of course, our parents were trying to teach us not to be wasteful, but when I was looking at tomatoes or peas…which I still do not really like, it didn’t make any difference, because I figured that if those children in Africa wanted my tomatoes or peas, they were welcome to them…just get me a to go box and I’d figure out a way to pay the postage.

My parents didn’t go for that, so I had to sit there until I cleaned up my plate. Yuck!! I tried everything I could think of to get out of it. I would put a forkful of peas in my mouth and then spit them into my napkin, but the darned things wouldn’t always stay in there, so I ended up getting them back. After a while, I learned how to make them stay in there pretty good, but I still got caught most of the time. Now tomatoes were a different story. Putting a forkful of stewed tomatoes in my mouth produced a pretty much instant gagging effect that was not faked, and trying to swallow was almost worse. I learned to plug my nose and swallow those nasty things whole…and quickly.

Sometimes, it isn’t a matter of not liking a food, but taking more than you can eat. My sister, Alena found that out on Thanksgiving one year, when she wanted to have the entire turkey leg. She argued with my dad about it until he finally gave in and let her have the entire turkey leg. Of course, she couldn’t eat it all, so Dad said she could have it the next day. Well, she still couldn’t eat it all, so she got it the next day…and the next. By that time it was covered with cranberry sauce and gravy, and just the site of it made Alena cringe. Dad would get that silly turkey leg out every day, and try to hide his emotions when he handed it to Alena. Finally, the turkey leg ended up in the trash, and to this day, Alena doesn’t eat the leg on turkey or chicken.

Yes, food can be an issue with kids , but eventually they outgrown that pickiness…or just grow up and move out, so they can make their own food choices. There are some things that I still don’t like…and probably never will, but as I found out recently with Avocados, it never hurts to try thing again once in a while, because your tastes might change. You never know, but tomatoes and peas…well not yet.

One Response to Kids and Food

  • From my cousin Shirley: That is one thing My Mom and Dad never did. If we didn’t like something we were not made to eat it but there was very little that we didn’t like. Mom raised all our Tomatoes and Peas and all that stuff. We ate all of it. I never forced my kids to eat anything they didn’t like and I won’t do it with my Grandkids either. Both of my Kids have that same thing going. They do not force their kids to eat anything they didn’t like. Larry was alergic to Peas, And Tuna fish. I thought he was going to die one day when he ate a Tuna sandwith. His throat started to swell shut and he got sick. I got an Allergy pill down him and it did help but to this day he cannot eat fish. Crab Lobster, Clams Shrimp, Those he can eat but Not regular Fish, He also was with Peas like you were with Tomatoes. They Gagged him so bad. But he can eat the raw ones. Tyrel Loves Broccoli and always has. He eats pretty much any Vegetable but avacado. So there you go.

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